CNY: The Haircut *tralalala*

Chinese tradition - Haircut before CNY.

And so, being the dutiful daughter *ahem* (exaggeration), I went for my haircut today. Alright, rephrase.....

Therefore, in line with tradition, I went for a haircut today.

This is how I looked before the haircut.

And so, she asked me. "What do you want to do with your hair this time around?" She's been my hairdresser for time in memorial, and I do trust her with my hair. So well, I gave her the utmost liberty to toy around with it. So she suggested a shorter style. And me, being me, with the mentality of "Hair only mah! Cut already can grow one! Be adventurous!" said yes. I agreed despite my prior intention to grow my hair long again. *lols* The random and ad hoc LV again; I guess. :P

Snip, snip, snip went the scissors.

And the end product...

For the first time, bro's hair is longer than mine! *Omigosh!* I think I look like a boy now! *lols* Or to quote bro, I look androgynous. Think I need to wear skirts and/or dresses only for the next 2 weeks. Otherwise, instead of "Ah Moi" I'll be mistaken as "Leng cai!"

Please be my judge.

-LV-

*lols*

*Tralalala*

I've never enjoyed the 2 hour drive back home so much before! And I've certainly not appreciated the lush greenery of the small 'kampungs' along the trunk road that much before!

Sheer joy! It's partly due to the CNY mood but more importantly, I've finally got a well-deserved break from BTC! 6 days of CLP lectures back to back for an entire month has drained much energy, zest and vigour out of me and it certainly feels good to be able to come home and recharge. Imagine a week away from classes. ZERO classes for 7 days! Yes, that's long for BTC standard! *happy nonetheless!*

I've earned this break, have been reading furiously for the past 3 weeks in anticipation of this break! And NO, I'm NOT gonna touch any books this week! Apart from story books of course!

-LV-

*Lols*

I see them an average of 3 hours per day...

I have dinner/lunch/tea with them 6 days a week...*lols*

That's even more than the total amount of time I spend with my family in a month!

Unveiling, for the first time.... my cohorts a.k.a. partners-in-crime. The ones that brighten up the gloomy hours at BTC. (Brickfields Torture Camp, FYI)

And yes, I'll be seeing them in another 8 hours time! *lols*

Oh yes, our post-class ad-hoc dinner date ended with this....

Yeah, yeah, yeah... I know I'm obsessed with this poster... *shy*

-LV-

Another 5 more hours and I'm off for 2 weeks (just found out today!) *cheers*

PS: Am back running on the treadmill after a long 1 month hiatus... 5.5km in 2 days... Ok la..

Yummy

I drive past this every day...

Takeshi Kaneshiro for Biotherm

(Picture credit: http://wetmen.provocateuse.com/show/takeshi_kaneshiro)

A larger-than-life sized poster hung in front of 1 Utama, which is IMPOSSIBLE to be missed everytime I drive along the LDP.

I think he says, "LV, bring me home!"

*drools*

-LV-

My Sister's Keeper

Currently listening to: Jacky Cheung, "你的名字，我的姓氏"; "Your Name, My Surname" (?) (lit.), and "有个人"; "There's Someone"(?) (lit.)

Thanks ZY!

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It's neigh time that I finally get down to some leisure reading. Hence, I chose this book which was recommended by Kirsty (my then Mental Health Law & Policy lecturer); "My Sister's Keeper" by Jodi Picoult. Wait a minute.... it doesn't make sense for her to recommend this book when she taught us Mental Health. Hmmm.... it sounds more like Suzanne. Well, I'm confused. It's an immaterial issue anyway.

Anyway....

Here are the different covers of the book. I personally prefer the second one as the first one looks more like a cover from a Mills&Boon novel (although it's in my favourite colour - blue). However, I bought the former as it costs RM1 less than the latter. (Yeah, I'm a cheapskate; I know! My prerogative...)

(Picture credits: http://www.amazon.co.uk)

(Picture credits: http://www.amazon.co.uk)

This book in essence; tells the tale of a young girl (Anna) who was conceived in order to play a role of a saviour sibling to her sister (Kate) who suffers from leukemia. As she was conceived and pre-selected using PIGD (pre-implantation genetic diagnosis) to ensure that she is (will be) a perfect genetic match for Kate, Anna (now aged 13) feels that she was not 'wanted' all along. She would not have existed but for Kate's illness.

I'm only at chapter 6 now, but I like the way Picoult (the author) narrates the chronicles; trials and tribulations of the various parties involved in Anna's 'quest for justice'. The first few chapters explore Anna's personal thoughts and her dissatisfaction towards the knowledge that she was intended to function as a saviour sibling for Kate. The author then follows on with Brian and Sue (I forgot her mum's name); their decision to embark on PIGD in order to find a matching 'donor' for Kate. To date (i.e. up to where I've stopped), Anna has engaged a lawyer (Campbell) to aid her in her personal quest. She feels 'used' and would like a court order restraining her parents from forcefully committing her to donate be bone marrow to her sister.

At chapter 7 now, and I'm loving this book as gets me thinking of the various issues that I've explored during the entire of 2006/07. Will post about my thoughts about these issues after I'm finished with this book.

-LV-

Things I Long to Do

Man! There are 2 things in particular that I would like to do this week, and would have done so but for clashes with my timetable! *sulks*

Firstly - The Raleigh monthly meeting, "Pedal Power" at Bukit Cerakah, Shah Alam. Cycling is one of my favourite activities. I like the feel of the gentle breeze or strong gushes of wind (depending on the speed you are travelling at) against my face! Ah, bliss! As far as I could recall, the last time I went cycling was a year and a half ago. It was fun, with a fun cycling partner. It was one of those random outtings we both used to have. 3 hours cycling non-stop, off the beaten tracks of Kpr. Joyful!

I guess, you could sense my love for cycling now! Yes, I really do. I enjoy random activities where I could just let go of all the work that I have in hand for a couple of hours and pedal with all my might. Give me a bicycle, or an offer to hike up some hill; I'll grab that anytime, compared to a trip to the movies!

But alas, plans down the bin! Gotta attend class..... *sic*

And secondly, got a call from SW today telling me about this talk during the Pantai Hospital Medical Fellowship Night. I so so so so wanted to attend this event; but for the Criminal Law classes this Friday! *Dang!* No, it's not because of the (possible availability) hunk factor. But it's because it is really an issue that I have a genuine interest for.

-LV-

Facebook Relationships Defined

Day 3 of my Gaya Hidup Sihat routine... I'm surviving..... Just need more will-power~
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Throw a random rock/shoe/duster/book into a crowd and chances are (98%) you will hit someone in the crowd out there who has a Friendster, Facebook, Bebo, MySpace, Ringo, hi5 or some social networking account.

I rarely feel secure about these sites as it just makes personal information about yourself easily assessible to anyone. Yes, I restrict assess to my accounts and accept only people whom I know on to my list. But still, the risk is prevalent.... Well yeah, this blog is not too safe either.... Who knows which freak/stalker would chance upon my blog.... *shudders*

But anyway, the advent of such so-called 'social networking sites' has brought a new definition to the concept of relationships. Pada zaman dahulu (back in those days), relationship status used to be definied with two words; "single" or "attached" aka "in a relationship".

This is no longer the case today. Facebook, Friendster and the rest of the lot have redefined relationship status. Nowadays, one could be:

(i) single - aka lone ranger
(ii) in a relationship - aka attached/taken
(iii) it's complicated - aka I don't know what to do man!?!? She/He loves me; She/He loves me not
(iv) in an open relationship - aka not taken but booked
(v) engaged - aka taken and booked
(vi) married - aka out of bounds

*lols* I find these over complex definitions hillarious at times!

NOW, what's your status?

-LV-
12.45am now, off to sleep in-line with my new policy.
Heath Ledger - May your soul rest in peace

CNY Shopping List

Ouch! Haven't been too well recently and I'm back to the act of popping pills again. Haih! This time around, its a slightly oblong-ish blue coloured Viagra LOOK-ALIKE for my jaw problems! *lols* Anyway, hope the new drug will at least do something to alleviate me of the symptoms as this is a chronic problem, with no hopes of permanent cure. Die man! Assuming that I have the general lifespan of 72 years, it will be another 47 more years of pain and suffering! And yeah, the vertigo episodes are killing me too!

I honestly think I'm paying back for the abuse and lack of sleep I caused to my body during the whole of 2007.

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Anyway.... back to the main topic.... My CNY Shopping List...

1. A nice pair of ballerina flats .... or Mary Janes ... or heels....
- Point is; I want shoes!

2. Some tops

3. Jeans
- Just noticed that my favourite pair is starting to show signs of wear and tear.... Memadai la... It's almost 7 years old now.

4. Lip gloss

5. Handbag
- Those huge ones would be lovely

6. Nail polish
- Probably the clear ones or some nude shades

7. Skirt/Slacks
- Formal looking ones...

8. Acessories
- How could my shopping be complete without them! :) I simply love my acessories!!!

Over and above that, I need a trim before CNY... :P In line with Chinese customs and tradition... *teehee*

*lols* The above is nothing but a wish list.... Alas, not working, still leeching on parents' money, where got money to shop le!?!? This makes me miss the financial freedom I enjoyed during my bancuh kopi part-time days!

Alright, 1238am now. I shall excuse myself and retire early in-line with my new resolution to sleep early and wake up early. Let's see how long I can last in this new little routine of mine!

-LV-
back to pill-popping mode again. Viagra look-alike here I come!!!

A Heart Wrenching Tale

My heart broke when I read Adrian's blog today. I've been reading his blog for quite sometime and enjoy his scandalous (fictional) tales as well as those that chronicle his life; both as a husband and father.

There have been previous posts similar to the ones posted today and a few days before. But, the one I read today simply broke my heart. How could a kid be punished in such a manner for losing a textbook and an artblock? Kids being kids are often playful and losing some things here and there is the norm. Disciplining the child is vital to instill a sense of responsibility, but does this mean that the child ought to be hurled with derogatory words and slaps on the head and face? Tirades of abuse like, "Are you stupid? You're useless!" serve nothing but to demolish a child's confidence. And hitting a child on the head and face?

Can you imagine, being subjected to such insults at 8 years of age? When everything mum says is right. So when mum says you are stupid and useless (though she did that in a fit of anger), it is often interpreted by the child as "it really means that you ARE stupid and useless". How demoralising can it be to a young mind! Don't come crying when your child turns out to be a rebelious teenager in the near future!

Some say, spare the rod and spoil the child. I beg to differ. There are many different methods to bring up a child and whacking the child serves nothing but to inflict pain. Done too often, it will only cause rebellion. The child must be made aware of why a certain conduct should not be done and be taught to refrain from doing so because it is morally wrong, and not because it would result in being caned by the parents. It must be a conscious decision to refrain from doing something and not a situation where fear (of the cane) governs the child's conduct.

This is one reason why I disagree with the disciplinary methods commonly employed by Chinese-type schools. Tak buat homework, kena! Buat bising sedikit, kena! Lupa bawa buku, kena! Maths tak cukup 100%, kena! Horrible handwriting, kena! Whacking won't make the child get 100%, whacking won't make the child's handwriting better! Patience and good nurturing does!

Growing up, I was never subjected to the cane. Thank God! I wasn't the best-behaved of kids, but certainly not the worst either. Point is, I was brought up to understand why certain acts are wrong and should not be done instead of being whacked whenever I did something wrong. Reasoning and understanding is the key!

More importantly, kids are to be loved, and not to be whacked!

-LV-
PS: come whack me if you dare!

What If You Had a Second Chance With the One Who Got Away?

Just a short review of a couple of movies that have caught my attention over the last few years.

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Flashback 2004:

That was when my love for movie-watching really began. Was in my 2nd year of Uni, 1st year abroad. Stuck with nothing much to do apart from books and cooking lunch and/or dinner everyday. Hence, my flatmates and I (Yumi and Kathrin) started a movie-going-club. Our aim was simple - one movie per month. It was great fun.

So off we went, one cold wintry night in January for our routine movie outings. Yumi, Kathrin, Michelle and I decided to watch "Closer". It looked promising judging from its stellar cast; Jude Law, Natalie Portman, Clive Owen, Julia Roberts. How bad could that movie be? And off we went to AMC Cinemas at Greater Northern for the movie.

"If you believe in love at first sight, you'll never stop looking."

(This probably explains the cause of infidelities! The constant yearning for more and for something better! Fallacies of the human mind yet again!)

(Source: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Closer_%28film%29)

Guess you may now wonder.... What's this movie about? 3 words - Sex, deceit and lies! This sums up the entire movie. Which probably explains why it never made its way to our Malaysian shores.

Anyway, in we went for the movie. And out we came after the movie, with complaints! The movie was slow moving, and a bit too 'vague' for our liking. We had absolutely no idea on the main plot. It was basically all about sex and infidelity (without a proper script). *period*

The only good thing about the movie is the soundtrack. Don't you all agree that a good song that is able to potray the emotions in the movie rocks big time!? So to speak, I fell in love with Damien Rice's "Blower's Daughter". Though I didn't like the movie itself, I think the song is able to potray the right emotions of the actors and actresses in the movie. The simple melody.... Ah! Listening to the song right now invokes memories of images of Natalie Portman walking down the streets alone.... Loneliness.... Jude Law's infidelity.... It brings about realisation (within me) of the emptiness deep within the soul of these characters whose life is filled with so much uncertainty, devoid of love... and feelings of longing... and the urge to be wanted...

Which is probably why I like this song so much; it captures the essence of the movie. And it does make a good song for when I'm driving alone at night, on the highway.....

"....Can't take my eyes of you..... Can't take my mind of you...." or so the song goes...


Fast-forward 2008:

It's a wonder how much things have changed. Yumi's back in Japan, Kathrin's back in Germany (working in Vienna though), Michelle's back in Boston, NY and I'm back in Malaysia. So yeah, our movie watcher's group have disbanded.

Yes, I still like the song. But, given a chance to watch the movie again, I doubt that I'll have the same reviews; i.e. Boring, Lousy.... I find that I've developed a penchant for slow-moving romantic movies recently. Evidenced by "The Lighthouse" (Keanu Reeves, Sandra Bullock) - well, it's not really that slow-moving. But critics have dismissed it as a pile of crap. Yet, I like it. The interaction between the characters. And of late, my recent discovery of yet another slow moving and simple movie, revolving around only 2 characters. Richard Linklater's 2004 production of "Before Sunset" set in Paris and its 1995 predecessor "Before Sunrise" set in Vienna. (Starring Ethan Hawke and Julie Delphy)

(Source: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Before_Sunset)

Now, this is proof that men look better with age. Scroll down to see Ethan Hawke *gasps* 9 years younger! Looks a bit like Orlando Bloom in Pirates of the Carribean III though!

(Source http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Before_Sunrise)

Not much to shout about as the movie revolves around 2 people (yes! only 2), and shot in different locations throughout the city. It's plain boring, some may say. But, I just love how the relationship between the two main characters unfold. Very much like watching 2 random people falling in love.

It bears the tagline, "What if you had a second chance with the one who got away?"

-LV-

But, how many of us would be lucky enough to be given that second chance? Seize the moment!

Oops, I did it again....

Short note:
Was driving home today. Car radio was tuned to Lite & Easy. Song dedication time as usual and one of my favourite songs was played....
Bryan Adams, "Everything I Do, I Do It For You"
I like the first verse;
"Look into my eyes, and you will see, what you mean to me.... Search your heart, search your soul, and you'll tell me that you'll search no more...."

(There's just something about your favourite song being played on air compared to it being played on the radio.)
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I must confess.... (No it's not a case of C and V or D and E) *lol*

I've learnt the lesson a couple of years ago, but looks like I've failed again. I vowed not to commit the same mistake twice. Alas, fallacies of the human mind!

Anyway, the problem lies with my inability to say "no". Yeah, I may be harsh, critical and determined at times. But, when it comes to certain issues, I find it hard to say "no". I must admit that I find it hard to turn someone down, especially if I know the person (however distant our relationship maybe).

I guess it's neigh time to be 'ruthless', to learn to say "no". I think I was more 'cold-blooded' and 'stone-hearted' before. But, the tables seem to be turned now. I used to be able to tell J straight to his face that his management skills suck big time, but I doubt if I will do it now. Well, unless I'm pushed to a corner, till the point where I can't withstand the 'irritation' anymore. *lols* Sounds like histamine reacting with allergens. But right now, I'm just taking the 'grin and bear with it' approach most of the time.

But yes, I am aware of the need for me to learn how to refuse and to say "no". Otherwise, the consequences would be severe, in the whole wide world out there. KH gave me a very practical example, "What if someone you don't like asks you to be his girlfriend?" Without a moment's of hesitation, I answered in the negative.

Heh, guess it isn't that hard after all. Must learn to refuse; given the right time, person and place! Shall see who's the unlucky one then!

Can you do this .... "No"

Can you do that .... "No"

Can you please .... "No"

Bet he/she will be damn pekchek! :P

In short, I just need to know where to draw the line!

-LV-

Who Done It?

A good one from SW....

One fine day, Spiderman, along with a policeman, Superman and an honest lawyer were having lunch together. Whilst having lunch, they sat around having their usual chit-chat and banter, and were admiring a ring that was on the table.

All of a sudden, the electricity supply was cut off.... the lights went off and came back on again moments later.

HOWEVER....

The ring was MISSING! *gasps, horror!*

Question is, who done it?

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Answer: The policeman. Why? Because the rest are fictional characters....

-LV-
*dang* Can't a lawyer be honest?

Confirmation of the Truth

Civil Procedure, Criminal Procedure, Tort, Contract, Wills & Probates, Evidence, Land Law, Ethics, Advocacy, Bankruptcy.

The above is the list of subjects I take for CLP. 5 subjects, rolled into 10 papers. Madness! Anyway, that's beside the point.

The past 4 months have reaffirmed what I've come to realise throughout my 4 year forray into the legal world. (Still taking baby-steps though).

1. I do not like Corporate and Commercial related subjects.
Contracts, commercial agreements, trade, mergers, acquisitions..... They all kill me! Seriously. I forget the concepts as soon as I learn them.

2. I like caselaw based subjects.
S126 Evidence Act, o74r6 Rules of the High Court, etc etc kill me!
BUT
Bolam v Friern Hospital Management Committee [1957] 1 All ER (page)
*Woo hoo!* I like it!

3. I like client interaction.
Volunteering at the Legal Advice Centre has reaffirmed this. That's why I've always tried to ask Anne for Family Law or Medical Law related cases. I just love interacting with people.
Ask me to look at contracts, draft agreements,.... better that you euthanise me!

4. I love Medical Law!
The more I study it, and the more I read about this subject.... The love for it grows! Sad thing is I've only been working with the patients all this while. Need to help defend a doctor to be able to look at things from the other side of the fence.

5. I love Family Law!
Though it may be sad when people recall the breakup of a 20 year marriage in front of you. No holds barred!
I could still remember the words and sadness in the eyes of my first client.

So, conclusion....

Do corporate and commercial stuff, do conveyancing stuff... I'll die man!

Give me a traffic accident case, a divorce case, a medical negligence suit... and I'll be the happiest person around... :)

-LV-

Nut Case

Thought of the day:
There lies a fine line between decency and indecency; and between sanity and lunacy. But very often, these lines are blurred...

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Woo hoo! Weekends are over! Just completed a mind numbing of 8 hours worth of back-to-back lectures! Pokai (Bankruptcy) Law kills!

Evidence of loss of brain capacity?
- Drove home, took the lift back to my place as usual.
- The doors opened, and out I went taking for granted that it stopped at the right floor.
- Walked back to my place, and it felt strange.
" Why did my immediate neighbour decide to hang a Sarong in place of a curtain? Wow! The girl next door has finally got some blinds. Oh, new poster on the door! Someone new must have moved into the unit!" I said to myself.
- Reached the doorstep, and proceeded to unlock the door.
- Darn! The lock refused to budge! *tries again* Hmmmm.... Not working!
- Looked up and the sign says "Floor X, Unit Y"
- Oh well, it looks like I've been opening the wrong door!
*Thank God no one was in. Thank God that they didn't install any burglar alarm! Otherwise, ciaklat la! :P*
- Pekchek! And I took the lift back to my place....

So here I am, giving my numb brain a well-deserved break... *tee hee* Before I become a nut case!

Like it or not, Sundays are here to stay!

-LV-

Challenging myself

突然觉得要 challenge 自己的国语 (Mandarin) 程度。。。
可是，又没有灵感。。。。哎呀。。。

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当我每天放学开车回家的时候， 感觉得非常轻松。。。自由自（载?) 地一边开车，一边听音乐。。。 啊。。。。真的好像 MV 里的歌手！

让我来分享一下，我最喜欢的几首歌。。。

Damien Rice - Blower's Daughter
陶吉吉 - 爱，很简单
王力宏 - 落叶归根
Kenny Loggins - For the First Time
Martina McBride - My Love, My Valentine
王力宏 - 唯一
王力宏- Forever Love
王力宏-Kiss Goodbye
Richard Marx - Now & Forever
Atlantic Starr - Masterpiece

以上的全都是当我傍晚失眠的remedy。啊，如果能够一边开车一边听着这几首歌真的是太好啦！！！可是，我的Wira 仔没有CD player! 太可惜咯。。。
我发现自己最近，越来越喜欢听 Oldies。。。 啊，可能是年纪老啦！！！

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*Lols* Bet most of you will be scratching your heads now... Why on Earth did I decide to post in Chinese? Well, just got a bit bored of studying and decided to challenge myself.

Have learnt a fair bit of Chinese during my primary school days. So I'm sure my short post above would have made most of the Chinese speakers out there laugh out loud at my horrid grammar and sentence structure! Darn! My thoughts don't flow as easily as when typing in English! Must improve on my Chinese di!!!! Otherwise, JY would continute labelling me as Cina celup for the rest of my life! :(

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Anyway, the post above goes (or is supposed to go) like this...

Best time of the day - when I drive home after classes at night. Driving along the brightly lit streets late at night, does evoke some feelings of tranquility in me. And perhaps, the sentimental side of me. At times, it makes me feel like a singer, in a music video....

Think those scenes where the singer drives along an empty and straight stretch of the highway, with nothing to accompany him, but the countryside and GRASS! *cool and serene!*

And I shall share with you, a couple of my favourite songs of all times....

Damien Rice - Blower's Daughter
陶吉吉 - 爱，很简单 (David Tao - Love is Simple; literal translation)
王力宏 - 落叶归根 (Leehom Wang - Falling Leaves Returns to Roots; literal translation)
Kenny Loggins - For the First Time
Martina McBride - My Love, My Valentine
王力宏 - 唯一 (Leehom Wang - The One & Only)
王力宏- Forever Love (Leehom Wang - Forever Love)
王力宏-Kiss Goodbye (Leehom Wang - Kiss Goodbye)
Richard Marx - Now & Forever
Atlantic Starr - Masterpiece

The above are songs that I have on my playlist, as remedies for my ocassional bouts of insomnia! It makes me relax and float in the air! *Lols* Nothing beats listening to those jiwang songs in the middle of the night! And yes, I would love to have those songs in my car during my 30minute drives back home after class. Too bad! No CD player in my car! :(

A short note: I realise tat I do in fact listen mostly to Light & Easy these days, and have taken an interest in Oldies.... Age is catching up! :P

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Disclaimer: The above is not a direct translation from the Chinese post above. Slight variations may occur. *Lols*
Well, so there you go! A post in Chinese out of boredom... Laugh all you want at my horrible command of Mandarin! I shall improve! I'll be back!

-LV-

We look different!

This is how we looked 9 years ago....

My favourite picture of all those we've taken throughout the years. Prizes for those who can guess where this is!

(Picture credits: LMK)

Flashback 8 years ago...

The graduating batch of 5Sc1; 2000

Those gila days of gatherings, ponteng classes, kena denda buang sampah, kena denda lari padang and yes! Remember the one time where some of us got caught going for recess early? Kena denda lari round padang carrying the bowl of noodles by Sohan Singh! Lee Wai Kit's errrmm 'pants'. Zaiton's susu stories. And when we kena called up during perhimpunan for refusing to collect donations for Jogathon? Irreplacable memories!

And 6 years ago...

Upper 6 Sc Alpha

Ketua Pegawas kena reprimanded for throwing away a sure-win 100m race *yes, I was guilty of contempt!* Pengerusi MPPT6 and his fair-share of ups and downs and school politics *lols* (I was there to provide the 'spice'). And when we used to ask CY to tapau noodles for us. (It was haram... but well, how many could boast of the fact that the top STPM student of the country tapau-ed noodles for them, swept the floor and cleaned the blackboard for them? *grins*)

And now, for those of you out there. Patients and clients alike. Look at those faces, can you spot your friendly doctor, kind dentist, efficient engineer, hot pharmacist and crafty lawyer from those faces above? Buzz me if your answer is in the affirmative!

-LV-

Musings

Random things that crossed my mind today:

- I'm so glad it's Thursday tomorrow - public hols, no classes tomorrow (finally a break), plans to hibernate at home!

- Where is ZY when I need to speak to him online?

- SC's story of "The Two Ladders". Very useful analogy I must say!

- Man! I'm a dangerous driver, cannot multitask when driving. Even changing radio stations may prove fatal to me!

- It's been quite sometime since I've met up with LMK. Must make an effort to meet up with him soon.

- Must put that torch JS gave me into my bag. Otherwise, it's just gonna be lying around in the house like a white elephant. Remember!

- ZY's Sepet - Must remember to bring on Saturday.

- An idle mind is a devil's workshop. I tend to think a lot about various issues especially during my commutes fr PJ - Perak.

- An alternative career as a legal advisor. That way, no issue of giving up rights to practice as per the Federal Constitution! Easier job as well, 9-5 (hopefully). Something that is close to my ideal job would be: desirable hours, good pay (who doesn't want it?) and preferably in hospitals (no, not to tackle drs, but it's a field that I'ld like to dabble in... VERY VERY MUCH!)

- SL's "3 hunky policemen" picture on her friendster profile.

- VC's clothes in the Grove House laundry! *lols!* MAN!!!! Eat more gingko for better memory :P

- NS and what she's up to now....

- That I would probably not want any abode bigger than an apartment in the near future, the thought of cleaning it is terrifying! Took me 1 hour to mop, sweep and clean the whole place I'm living in this morning!

- The TVB drama I'm watching now.

- Jarum Halus date, supposed to be on tomorrow, but kena postponed.

- My plans for tomorrow, but decided to stay in!

- GYM?? Maybe!

- RIKL Slave Auction: Wonder who are the (un)lucky one's who got picked for it... and their respective tasks.

- Plans for the weekend! :)

- New Year Party - I'm sure it's gonna be fun!

- I wanna visit India, South Africa, Scandinavia (Norway and Finland - yes, wishful thinking), Vietnam, Singapore, Peru.

- SC's wine glass....

- Raleigh Expedition in July *fingers crossed*

- 2 more people on the call list to call tomorrow *KIV KIV*

- Man, 5 more pages of Ethics to read tomorrow!

- I had a good start to the New Year. 1st week, very promising and good!

- Iain is one cool dude!

- Oh yes, I've been trying to pair different professions together, and I've came to this conclusion.

Teachers basically go well with anyone. - They are free (compared to the others) and 'work half-day'. So no issues of who's gonna take care of the kids.

Accountants + Econs/Commerce people - Same field. (Lame conclusion, I know)

Lawyers + Drs - Lawyers are mainly governed by emotion, and their desired to fight for the case, at all costs. Drs, able to stay calm even during emergencies. *Yin & Yang factor here!* (Reminds me of what Kirsty mentioned during our Mental Health class the other day)

Lawyers + Accountants - Can pakat to evade tax together-gether :P

Drs + Nurses - Same field, same working hours! He He! Wonder if meeting each other 24/7 will take the sparks away?

Market Researcher + Paparazzi - They both love to 'snoop' and enquire about things.

(Sorry la, just random thoughts of mine whilst driving home from BTC today...)

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AND YES! Of course, the forthcoming CNY and meeting up with CL! *yay!*

-LV-

Feeling like a Beached Whale

The long hours at college tires me out at the end of the day. Sitting down for lectures, does nothing much except contributing to severe backaches and a flatter bum :P (KH, still owe me a remedy for my backache, eh! *bleh*)

Been 4 months since I've exercised regularly. The ocassional jogging and squash sessions does keep me fit to a certain extent, but it's not enough for the Energizer Bunny in me. I think I'm a hamster. "Why?" Some of you may ask.

Think: Hamsters are kept in a cage, but still they get an exercise wheel. Running on the wheel makes them happy.

Relate: LV is stuck at home, without an exercise wheel. Thus, she is restless!

I need some adrenaline to keep me going. Otherwise, I feel like a beached whale! (Mel's favourite quote). Maybe badminton, or worse situation Pingpong! (Though I know nuts about the game!) Squash, Jogging, Swimming and Taekwondo would be best!

I miss this!



And this...


But what to do! No time to go!

-LV-

*ho hum* 2008

*ho hum* So, this marks the end of the first week of 2008. What have I achieved and/or done so far? NOTHING!

Was having the usual converstions with SW and HP in during our breaks today! Boy, these two persons, certainly brighten up my otherwise mundane life! I'm lucky to have known them! Anyway, topic for to day is "What ifs..."

It made me ponder for a bit. And I realised that there are indeed a couple of what ifs in my life. Questions which make me wonder how would my life turn out to be had I chosen the alternative path. Yet, I believe things happen for a reason. Afterall, God did not create sunshine without rain!

One of the most pressing what-ifs I have is the one with regards to a decision I made 5 years ago. Had I chosen to stay on, would my situation/life be different today? Whilst unsure about other aspects, I'm certain that there are a couple of things that would certainly have been different had I chosen to stay on. But well, I chickened out, so to speak. :P I would not say that it was a 'wrong choice', but I must admit that I do ponder upon this issue very often. I really long to know, how life would turn out for me in the other side of the country.

But well, things happen for a reason, and I'm sure I will eventually be able to know of the reasons. Eventually....

The grass is always greener on the other side.. *ho hum*

-LV-

Amazing Race Asia

Daichi and Sawaka, one of my favourite teams is out of the race.

Henry and Terri - I just hate them! This couple is always quarelling, bickering and cursing throughout the show! Wonder how they managed to stay married for 11 years. Henry is quite patient, kudos to him for putting up with Terri's childishness and unreasonableness throughout the competition. Poor man! That lady is such pain!

-LV-

Life's Lessons Learnt

*Crash, boom, bang!*

What an interesting and colourful start to the new year! The first 2 days of 2008 has been filled with interesting news!

Moral of the story: The hand that rocks the cradle, rocks the world!

Don't you agree, folks?

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That moral lesson aside, I've finally relented (after a week's battle with my persistent allergy) and went to the doctor's (a Mr. Y) instead of my usual ENT specialist. It was an interesting visit. I guess it's probably because that I've grown so accustomed to Mr. U that I never realise that I'm telling him about the on-goings of my life for the past year. The conversations come so natural between us, him asking me about my studies, him telling me about some gossips and it goes on for quite some time...

So, when I went to Mr. Y for consultation today, when he asked me what I studied, I decided to tell him what I do for a living (or rather, what I hope to do for a living) TOGETHER WITH SOME EXTRA INFORMATION; just for kicks. (FYI, I love watching their reaction and listening to their replies!). He's not the first one I've done this to.... *evil grin* Conversation goes like this,

"So, which University are you from?"

Oh, Manchester....

"Ah, I see. What course did you study?"

Under normal circumstances, I'll go ..... Well, I read law. But, just for the heck of it, I tend to add some spice when it comes to doctors.... :P
THUS, my reply went like this
Oh... I did law, and went on to complete a Masters in Medical Law
(After that, I pause and wait for a spectacular reaction.... which NEVER fails to amaze me, everytime this little 'party trick' of mine is pulled off)

"Wow!!! You are the reason the litigation is going up!!!" *lols, doctors say the darnest things! I just love them!*

*And I just sat there and gave him my sweetest smile...*

(Man, telling doctors what I do for a living is surely fun!)

Anyway, walked out of his clinic, with some medicine (as usual), and a new toy - Nasal Spray! Nasal Sprays never work for me anyway, and I doubt whether this will.... *haih*

-LV-

2007: The Year that Was

Warning: This will be a long post, feel free to skip it if you wish to. It's meant to be a personal account of what life was like for me in 2007; for personal record purposes.

Note: The sentences in colour are recent updates.
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Here's what I've been up to in 2007. However, instead of starting the chronological countdown from January 2007, I shall begin my account of events from September 2006 as I view it as the proper starting point of what constitutes a 'year' for me; the start of another academic year in Manchester.

September 2006

I had my qualms and initial doubts, but nonetheless made up my mind to pursue my PG studies. Hence, yet another year in Manchester for me. Touched down in Manchester on the 16th September, met up with Vince; got some essentials and I was back home sorting out some stuff. Fell ill the following day, walked across the road to St. Mary's Hospital for what I thought would be a routine visit to the doctor's (with NS in tow). Little did I know, I ended up being hospitalised for the 1st time in my life. Reason? Suspected Malaria. Test results turned out negative, and I was discharged the following day. (Thank God!)

October 2006

Settled down into my course, made a couple of good friends, and boy it felt weird being the only Asian in my class! BTW, there were only 3 international students in my class (the other 2 being Africans - Dorcas and Divine; I do miss them!). Got my first part-time job at Druckers. It feels good having some cash flowing in every week.

Living with my lovely flatmates is a bliss! I miss the grocery trips to Asda with Yiwen, trips around town gossiping about the Angmohs in Mandarin right in front of them in Mandarin with Mel. (PS: Thank God you learnt Mandarin Mel!) And yes, the fights with the cleaners and Uni. admin which I do not wish to repeat here.

Oh yes, started my Korean class. Min's such a lovely teacher; he's such a dear! LIFE IS GOOD!

With Dan and Divine on my final day in Manchester; met up at Footage for a final chitchat and drinks session.

With my lovely flatmates; Mel, Yiwen and Hui-Chi on my birthday in New Samsi

November 2006

Started my stint as a Student Ambassador as well, a weekly task that I enjoyed a lot. Worked with kids; mostly speaking to them about University life and bringing them around the Museum. Best part of the job is being able to meet new people/colleagues every week! Apart from that, handled my first and last case at the Legal Advice Centre for this term; work and studies were taking its toll, and I began to find it hard to divide my time.

December 2006

Christmas break. Didn't do any travelling. Stayed back to work and complete my courseworks. Had a Christmas dinner with Steph, Vince, Bishal and Jessica. First time making gammon. Turned out okay taste wise, but Vince and I should have toned down on the salt. *Right?* And yes, began playing squash again. *yayness!* Also, began to think seriously about going on a Raleigh Expedition in 2007.

January 2007

Slogged through the 4 papers I had to write (Thank God we got an extension from Matti for one of them, or else it would have been hell!) Glad to have Steph n Vince around for support during those frustrating times! Oh man! I hate Philosophy.

February 2007

3rd CNY away from home; nothing much except for the annual dinner we always have together. And yes, how could I forget the lovely Dimsum brunch with Vince and Ha! Along with the CNY parade at Chinatown; lion dance, firecrackers, Chinese traditional dances. *fun!* Valentine's was nothing special; went out for a dinner with the girls as usual. Celebration of singlehood? *lols* Started my 2nd sem; beginning to hate Mental Health Law. Sucks big time! Submitted my application form for Raleigh Expedition.

Vince and I at Chinatown; I hate this picture, but how could a post on my life for 2007 be complete without a picture of my bestest surrogate brother?!? *Agree?*

Lion dance by guai los (ironically), for guai los (as expected)... *hehe*

March 2007

1st trip with my hard-earned money! Went to Amsterdam with CC and Amy. Staying on a boat was great fun!

Amsterdam; Kukenhoef Tulip Garden

April/May 2007

Nothing much done, apart from slogging to finish off my 2nd semester papers. 4 altogether along with a dissertation proposal. Free time was spent complaining to Mel about my workplace, etc and also spent planning for bro's visit.


June 2007

Bro finally arrived! He spent a total of 3 weeks in Manchester; thankfully I managed to get time off work. We travelled extensively; Manchester - Paris - London/Windsor - Rome - Manchester. It was awesome. Apart from that, I began to plan for my epic journey home.


July/August 2007

Booked my flight tickets home. Abandoned plans of extensive travel throughout Northern Europe as I did not want to risk travelling on overnight trains alone. Hence, decided on a Manchester - Denmark - Sweden - Hong Kong - Macau - KL route home. Stopped work officially on 28th August; it was blissful! Finished up my dissertation... glad to be done with it as I knew that I've opened Pandora's Box the moment I started my research on the chosen topic. Well, at least I graduated...

Mel's Birthday Cupcakes - from Yiwen and I (Can't believe I sent her on a Treasure Hunt for it! And she gamely played along!)

September 2007

Packed my bags, and shipped some stuff home. Left Manchester on the 7th September for Copenhagen and there I was gallavanting alone in Northern Europe for the next 4 days. It was blissful! Next, made my way to Asia - HongKong via Helsinki. At this point, I regretted my decision not to visit Finland! Anyway, met up with MW in HongKong and we had an awesome 6 days in HK/Macau. She's such a lovely travelling partner!

Anyway, arrived home (for good) on the 16th September 2007 @ 2335pm, exactly a year since I left. It felt good.

Executed my Raleigh fundraising projects on the following 2 weekends. ZY (especially) has been such a dear during the whole project! I'm ever thankful to him for doing all the groundwork and running around while I did the correspondence part overseas. Kudos also to Vincent and Jun! It was also at this point when I realised that it was impossible for me to participate in the Autumn expedition at this point as it clashes heavily with my CLP (bad planning on my part). Informed SC and PT about my decision. Despite that, I went ahead with my fundraising and I endeavour to participate in an expedition in the future. It would be morally wrong to fleece the donations.

Feature article on us and our fundraising activities on the Rage. Picture taken from ZhiYong's blog.

It was also, at this point where I decided to put a stop on an on-off friendship; which I knew was never going to kick-off to a proper start anyway. Up till this point, I could never fathom why things turned out that way, but well, I'm glad to have made this decision, and life couldn't be better.

Oh yes, I was seriously ill during my 1st fundraising project too! High fever, plus the harrowing experience of a broken contact lens in my eye!

Macau - KL (I'm heading home!)

October 2007

Felt out of place; after 2 weeks of being home. I was living without a routine. FYI, I'm someone who thrives on a routine. Hence, I felt like a headless chicken without one. Started CLP classes, and hated it! Also, began to reconstruct my social life back home. Got reacquainted with my old friends i.e. my gang, and also began to hang out with the folks at Raleigh; getting to know them more. A lovely bunch I must say!

Plus, it's nice having my trusted confidantes close to me now... finally! (Steph, MW, KH, to name a few) Thanks guys!


November 2007

Began to embrace and love my new life back home. But still, haven't quite adjusted. Made a bunch of close friends in CLP class (HP, SW.... you spice up my life esp. on weekends), and began to enjoy the course as well. Started to go jogging and to the gym again. Life is good!


December 2007

I've fully adjusted to life back home. But admittedly, there are somethings about Manchester that I will miss. Still, nothing beats being home! Oh yes, driving and navigation skills getting better. Yet, I hate driving in KL!

Oh yes, my allergy (which I though I had successfully weaned myself off...) has struck again! This time, with a vengeance. Suffering from blocked sinuses everyday!

Made a couple of roadtrips to Melaka and Cameron Highlands respectively. December has been a relaxing month in general.

Oh yes, December 13th - I finally 'graduated' with an MA! Didn't make it for the ceremony though. Nonetheless, it's something achieved!


And I hereby eagerly embrace 2008!

-LV-

Down & Under the Weather

*sniff* *sneeze* *sniffs* *sneezes* *sniffs again* *sneezes again* *stuff tissue paper up nose*

Man, I'm such a whiner!

I suffer from allergic rhinitis; a condition that is triggered by dust and change in temperature and/or humidity. This condition never bothered me when I was in Manchester (presumably due to low humidity); but has always bugged me whenever I'm back in Malaysian soil.

So I guess, you could probably picture my joy and happiness when during my initial 2 months back home, I never did suffer from any major allergy attacks. Alas, this small little joy of mine was short-lived. Come December 2007, it's back to haunt me again!!!

I've been going through packs of tissue paper daily; coupled with a daily 'tonic' a.k.a. cocktail of drugs to supress it, but to no avail. The moment the drug wears off, the nose continues to 'leak' again! No fun, man! *Digress!!!!!*

File picture: My cocktail of drugs (Summer 2006 edition). Makes no difference anyway as I'm still dependent on the same ones now

Clarinase makes me high... Woo hoo!!!

-LV- *sniffs*

My Promises for 2008

My resolutions for 2008:

1. To relax and be less uptight
"... Let go and you will see new beginnings flow through you like the life-reviving rays of the Sun..." (so says Madam Zorra http://livyen.blogspot.com/2007/12/new-year-heralds-new-beginnings.html)

2. To eat less junk
- Eating too much of these rubbish nowadays...

3. To study more
- Need to be more focused on my CLP papers; been slacking too much recently. 7 more months to go, so just suck it up LV!

3 simple resolutions; not that hard to keep eh? (I wonder, how long will no. 2 last...) Keeping resolution no. 1 should be simple enough; just relax and enjoy more, with less cyncism and resolution no. 3 even simpler; when desperation arises I would have no choice but to sit down and study! Buck up, girl!

-LV-

The New Year heralds new beginnings

Madam Zorra's predictions for 2008

Virgo
"... This is a wonderful year for the Virgo especially in love, marriage and personal relationships. Let go and you will see new beginnings flow through you like the life-reviving rays of the Sun. The year brings renewed courage to face adversities especially in money matters and health.
The reticent Virgoen must shed all doubts and inhibitions and step outside of the box. This will bring refreshing change especially in love and relationships. To give you courage and uplift your spirits, wear fresh tones of sky blue and lavender especially close to your face..."

The Chinese version of Madam Zorra (according to KH) says likewise too....

-LV-

Strawberry jam, anyone?

Made a short trip up to Camerons a few days ago. Made our way up via the Simpang Pulai route, which is a pretty pleasant drive. Less winding and wider road; thus, yours truly (the amateur driver) drove with ease. Arrived at Kampung Raja 2 hours later (yes, the journey up took slightly longer than usual, as yours truly was driving :P); made our way down to Brinchang where we stopped for lunch and for some 'sight-seeing'.

Got some plants, vegetables and strawberries and began our descend 3 hours later. We decided to take the Tapah route home. Made a couple of pitstops at the Orang Asli stalls during our journey down, but failed to get anything from them...

So....

What does one do, armed with a box of strawberries?

One makes jam of course!

... after 30 minutes of stirring...

Voila! This is the end product...

-LV-

Temptations

Does this look familiar to you?

This.....

And this......

NOW.....

The sign often says "No tasting". (I.e. no putting yr hands in the containers for a quick bite)

Own up people, how many of you have tried sneaking a quick bite?

-LV-

PS: Merry Christmas everyone. Have a blessed year ahead!

Domestic Help

It is undeniable that we are increasingly reliant on domestic help these days. Whilst they may be helpful around the house with household chores and probably when taking care of the kids (while the parents are at work) is concerned, this does not mean that one is relieved of the burden of performing their respective duties (when the family is concerned). I.e. a mother should not rely solely on the domestic helper (shall refrain fr using the term "maid" as far as possible) to take care of and to bring up her kids and a child should not rely solely on the domestic helper to take care of their aging parents. Yes, they might relieve us of the burdens while we are at work; but this does not mean that they could be allowed to take over our respective tasks.

Scenario 1
A (a young bloke, probably in his early 20s) returns from a long journey home. Drove a couple of hours to reach home. Upon reaching home, he sounds the car horn to summon the domestic helper to open the gate, and to unload his bags from the car. And what does A do upon arrival? A merely gets off the car, and walks straight into the house.

Question: Is is really that hard for one to carry the few bags that one has? It ain't that difficult.

Scenario 2
Same situation, but with slight variation to the facts. Family goes out with the matriach, arrives home. Yes, the horn sounds again. And the poor domestic helper has to scurry out. Why? One may ask. Answer - to help their mother/grandmother get off the car, while the rest of them just walk off into the house.

Question: Is that necessary? 2 healthy young persons, and none are able to assist? Come on folks, she ain't heavy; she's your mother! Ever hear of retribution?

Scenario 3
Family outing. Domestic helper tags along, and at the look of things, it appears that she plays the role of the mother more than the mother herself!

Question: Why have kids then?


-LV-

Season's Greetings

Hari Raya Haji yesterday...

Winter Solstice (Dong Zhi) tomorrow....

and... Xmas is looming near!!!

The crowd waiting for 'snow' (foam in reality) to fall at The Curve.... *heh*

The Centre Court; The Curve

-LV-

Virgo

I like reading the "Horoscopes" section in the papers daily. I've never been one to believe in such things, but I somehow just like reading them. Anyway, here's something interesting I found about myself online...

VIRGO:

The One that Waits. (Am I that patient?)
Dominant in relationships.
Someone loves them right now. (Who? Who? Who?)
Always wants the last word.
Caring. Smart. Loud. (Sometimes la, during P8 meetings... :P) Loyal.
Easy to talk to. (It really depends...)
Everything you ever wanted.
Easy to please. (Heh...)
A pushover.
Loves to gamble and take chances. (Not really, as luck is never on my side... so why gamble?)
Needs to have the last say in everything.
They think they know everything and usually do. (*wry smile)
Respectful to others; but you will quickly lose their respect if you do something untrustworthy towards them and never regain respect. (VERY OH, SO, DEFINITELY TRUE!)
They do not forgive and never forget The one and only. (Errrmmm...)


Do you agree with me?

-LV-

The Weekly Commute

Rewind - 2003
Place of study: KDU
Weekly travel plans: PBSM (Persatuan Balik Setiap Minggu) - Friday evenings --> Monday mornings

Rewind - 2004 - 2006
Place of study: Manchester
Weekly travel plans: Nil. Only the annual Summer hols

Fast-forward - 2007
Place of study: Brickfields
Weekly travel plans: Ocassionally. But I rarely cabut balik kampung at the first opportunity now.

Seriously, as much as I would like to be home, I dread the 2 hour drive (at times). I wonder how I did it every single week without fail during those good old KDU days! *salutes self*

As such, I do marvel (now) at a friend of mine who travels back to Taiping every single week (4 hour journey, mind you) without fail!

Conclusion:
Have I grown more independent? Or am I just used to the idea of staying away from home? Or, is it because I have a wider circle of friends in KL? Or maybe, more activities that I am involved in?

-LV-

I agree

Very well said...

http://nicolekiss.blogspot.com/2007/12/seeking-my-soul.html

"Seeking My Soul" - by Nicole


-LV-

Right.....

"Right.... Now, better stop acting silly before I change my mind...."

Too judgmental - Maybe? (Darn, Mel how am I to deal with this shortcoming of mine?!)

Too analytical - Perhaps? (Mel, help!!!!)

*Lols* But, its hillarious when people take pains to act 'bitchy' towards you (certain conditions apply)

-LV-
PS: Should I laugh, cry, whinge or just sigh....

Year End Post

December 2007... So the year has come to an end (almost). Now, let's take a look back at what I've done over the past 12 months:

1. Picked up a couple of additional language skills, though I have yet to Master them.
- Thanks to Klem and Min for making my French and Korean lessons so so so fun! And yes, the many friends I've made along the way!

2. Got a couple of part-time jobs whilst in Uni.
- Catering Assistant
--> The longest one I've had. 10 months in total. Full of ups and downs. It brings in the dough nonetheless. But I'm retired now. Won't be back anytime in the near future.

- Student Ambassador
--> The most enjoyable one I've had! Meeting so many different people, working with kids (though, I may beg to differ had it been a long-term job. An assignment once a week, every Wednesday is more than enough...). Oh yes, the 10 hour shift during the UCAS Education Fair at G-Mex, Manchester! Most mundane job I've done in my life! 10 hours spent collecting boxes from the booths! OMG! Good pay nonetheless!

- TCC Officer
--> Call operator with the Uni. Admissions Division. Easy and stress-free job. Go to work, log on to the computer, make a couple of calls to International Students (whilst logging on to MSN and surfing the net...). Ain't rocket science! Easy peasy..
Met some nice colleagues. And yes, Alan is such a dear!

3. "Send Li Vyen to the Jungle"
- Planned to banish myself into the jungles of Borneo in Autumn 2007 (after completion of my MA), but the plan didn't take off as it was supposed to be. As a result, had to FFK and will be on the 5 week July 2008 one (if possible). Hope I won't be sabotaged by CLP once again!
- Became a 'professional fundraiser' in the process. Ha Ha! My begging skills ain't that bad after all!
- But, sadly... had to revert back to my role of a professional student in October instead of the Jungle Jane role...

4. Friends
- Made many new friends this year. Enlarged my social circle, baik di Malaysia, Asia Tenggara, Afrika ataupun di Eropah.
- Packed my bags and resettled down in Malaysia. Got reacquaintted with old friends, picking up from where we have left back in 2004.... But, yes, we've change a lot....

5. Family
- Always nice to be part of the Reunions.
- Looking forward to my 1st CNY in 3 years...

6. Work/Studies
- Still have not moved on from my role as a 'professional student'. Hopefully, will be able to get rid of this tag in Sept 2008.
- Career wise, I'm more or less clear of my 'directions'. But, before that, need to clear the CLP hurdle! *Dang!*

-LV-

It Put a Smile to My Face

I received mail last week... all the way from Belize...

Ah... it was a promise I made to Mel a month ago. I had agreed to participate in Aren's fifth grade social science project. (BTW, Aren is Mel's godson fr USA). An interesting one indeed...



To cut the long story short, students are required to write a journal entry about themselves and their country, then pass it on to their friend/relative (who lives nearby or anywhere in the world). The receipient is then required to create a journal entry and pass it on to another relative/friend of theirs.... Having done that, they are to send Aren a postcard in order for him to track the journal's 'journey' round the globe. Simple as ABC? It ain't no rocket science!



Hence, its (the journal's) journey started in Illinois (USA), to Belize... and now, to Malaysia...

1st Leg - Belize (22nd Oct 2007)

It's been ages since I've last done a scrapbook. So I was rolling back time today... back to my primary school scrapbook days! There I was, sitting in my lounge; flicking through the newspapers and magazines for my journal entry. After 1 hour or so of flicking through numerous newspapers and magazines, I've finally amassed sufficient material for my 9 page journal entry.

(PS: It prolly looks more like a pile of messed up papers)

Enough pictures to amaze a 10 year old I guess. And sufficient material to introduce my country to the fifth graders.

2nd leg - Malaysia (05 December 2007)

Tried to keep things simple. But wow! I realised that I've got so much to say about Malaysia...

Anyhow, I managed to stay within my initial 9 page target (according to Mel's precedent). And my entry is as follows:

(i) Places to Visit

(ii) The People of Malaysia

(iii) Animals of Malaysia

(iv) Malaysian Culture

(v) FOOD!!!!! (How could a description of Malaysia be complete without an entry about food?)

Below are extracts from my entry...



I've done my part! Completed the entry and sent off Aren's postcard.


The journal is on it's way to Australia now. Sarah Chambers - 3rd on the hitlist!

PS: Simple things like this put a smile to my face. It has indeed made my day. And I hope that it made Aren's too!

-LV-

Awww....

The best feeling in the world...

Returning home from work, and the sight of your child running towards you. Arms wide-stretched, ready to be hugged... *Awwww.... how sweet!*

The thought/sight of it brings a smile to my face... My heart melts...

(And of course, if the Dad/husband is Tom Cruise... it's indeed icing to the cake!)

(Source: The Sun, UK; September 2007)

-LV-

Tee Total

Pun intended for the above title.

It has been 2 months since I've moved down south. Alas~ This means that I have to put up with sleepless nights/lack of sleep once again! I can't fathom why I'm finding it difficult to fall asleep whenever I'm away.

I tried going tea(e)-total. I.e. avoid drinking tea at night during those Mamak sessions. But I only managed to restrain myself for 2 days. TWO DAYS! :P *lols - Should I be proud of myself? Or should I not?* Anyway, it didn't really help much! (for the two days I was tea-total).

But honestly, I can't understand why I'm having sleepless nights in my home(s) away from home...

Take for instance:
During my 3 years in Manchester; the number of afternoon naps I took (notwithstanding the many that I've tried unsuccessfully to) probably would not have exceeded 10. All not exceeding 1 hour.
c/f
My 3 hour naps back home :)

Down south: I go to bed dead-tired after class. But yet, I still find myself rolling around in bed at 5am. Damn! I've got to wake up at 7am for a class the next morning!
c/f
*thud* My head lands on a pillow.
*snap* My mind goes off to dream land......

Oh God! Help me!!!!!

PS: Hope my problem is semi-cured now... Just that I need to ensure that I'm properly rested before the Mat Rempits wake me up every morning 6am w/o fail... Cis!

-LV-

I've Learnt to Enjoy the Pain

Exactly 2 months into this course. And I realise that my life centres around it. It's turned into a personal obsession (exaggeration added for dramatic effect...).

Well firstly, I'm glad (in a way) that I've decided to abandon my plans to go on a Raleigh expedition in October in order to focus on CLP. Well, not that I had a choice anyway.... Registration datelines to comply with, paper work to be done, and when you discover that 50% of your course would be completed by December, the prudent one would definitely postpone expedition. Passing rate at 20% per year, well I guess I need to work my arse off for the next 8 months.

One thing that irks me is the intensity of classes and the bulk of information 'fed' to us during each class. 7 hours of classes on Saturdays... No joke! And yes, not forgetting the ungodly hours that mess up your meal times. I'm sure my friends will be familiar with my statements like "Well, I dunno if it's dinner/supper for me now....".

The intensity of classes brings me back to school days where classes were Mondays - Fridays 720am - 2pm (an average Form 6 day). Not forgetting the tuition classes and the co-curricular activities after that. Wonder how I survived that. Guess I've just fallen into the comfort zone of University life. Lols* I honestly think that a Manchester law student has the least number of hours. 12 contact hours (at most) a week. Back then, I had so much time for other activities and my life is not governed by questions like; "what time should I leave for a 6pm class?", "will I be stuck in the traffic jam if I were to take this route?", "class begins at 630pm now, should I have dinner now? (it's 545pm FYI - too early dinner by my stds)"....

But well, let this be my last rant about CLP. It will be very much a part of me for the next few months.

My life....


To be honest, when choice is not an option.... I've learnt to enjoy the pain....

-LV-

Different...

With glasses, sans glasses....

Short hair, long hair....

We're siblings, though we look fundamentally diff...

(Picture taken at Subang Parade; 13th October 2007)

(Menara Tun Razak, KL; 19th November 2007)

Conclusion: Yes, I look diff....

PS: This was meant to be an aimless post... Well, Friday nights with nothing else better to do....

-LV-